5 Things To Do Before Death

This post is actually inspired by a radio program/talk-topic this morning. It was about a book that written by someone which talked about the 100 things to do before the author pass away.

After the author passed away(I can't remember how the author passed away, the DJ did mention but I didn't pay attention. Was concentrating on the traffic to find 'holes' to get to the fastest moving lane), someone did some finding and found that the author had actually did half (50) of them.

I was so amazed and asked myself, what are the 100 things I want to do before I die? I've been thinking all the away during the jam (It was damn f**king jam these 2 days due to the stupid National Day rehearsal. Can't these stupid heads plan and do it outside the peak period, can they? DAMN!!!), and found that there are quite a number of things I want to do. But there are 5 MAIN THINGS which is a MUST!

Here are my 5 Things To Do Before Death:

1. Retire my parents and bring them to travel around the world while they can still walk.
2. Spend as long time as possible with my dearest.
   
3. Find a better guy (better than me) to replace me to take care of my dearest.
4. Make sure my parents and dearest can live in a money-is-not-an-issue way after I am gone. (Buy big big insurance?)
   
5. Make sure I will die in a peaceful way, without pain and without adding burden to my family.
   

Mind to share yours?

喜歡

Below is an article that worth a person like me reading.

I didn't purposely look for it, but a friend of mine showed me as he wanted to me help him to translate a sentence into English. I couldn't hold myself to continue reading it after the first paragraph, and found it really worth a person like me reading it.

Decided to share with you. You might like it as well, who knows?


Article taken from http://www.sinchew.com.my/node/78286?tid=3

終於見面了！再見竟然是相隔10年之後。看他，緩緩走來，他的臉越來越清晰，笑容依舊，她的心裡突然一陣悸動，當年相遇的情景，深深淺淺，酸酸甜甜，那是初戀的感覺，就這樣一一回來了。她認真的把身子坐直，嘴角忍不住笑意，仔細端詳眼前的人，就是當年那個總在黃昏時分，騎腳踏車經過她家門口的少年，如今正和她面對面，細說從頭。

這樣的場景，這樣的一頓飯，對於當年的他們，曾經是一個多麼奢侈的夢。他們一起回憶當年，談笑之間，仿佛有一股柔軟的力量把對彼此的愛戀簡化，少了傷害，多了依靠。她心裡明白，他們的故事不會擁有像童話般的圓滿結局，卻也永遠不會划上休止符，有如一首唱不完的歌，在夜深人靜之時，只要想起對方，就會在耳邊輕輕響起。她心存感恩，因為她沒有失去這個朋友。

經過了這麼多年，他們已經可以很坦然的面對彼此，發生過的誤會也當成一個玩笑，互相調侃一番，隨即雲淡風輕。原來一直念念不忘的，是當年在人群之中，第一時間嵌入彼此眼裡的一張素臉，幹淨無塵，就像一個紋身，烙印在生命裡，永遠無法磨滅。

喜歡和愛，中間是一條時間的河，時間漸漸說明了一切。喜歡可以是很久很久的事，什麼時候想聽聽對方的聲音，就撥通電話；想念對方就寫封電郵，用彼此熟悉的文字來表達思念，不會有要求，自然也不會有壓力，越是在乎越是希望對方可以自由飛翔；愛，則是一場迷失自我的追逐遊戲，從最初怦砰然心動到最後的習慣，剩下的就只有更深的寂寞。

於是，他們選擇了喜歡，以另一種方式守護一段難得的情誼，一直到老。

- RM0.15

Me:"Wei, you 'grandpa' dropped RM0.15 wor...fast fast go pump before he raises it again"

Friend:"Diuuuuuu....I just pumped full this morning.....I lost a plate of Wantan Mee....F**k!!!"

Me:"Hahahahahahaha.....I also just pumped early this week, with the capacity of my car's feul tank, I think I lost a plate of Wantan Mee double mee with extra Wantan and extra Char Siew + Teh Ais"

Friend:"Hahahahahaha......."

Me:"Diuuuu....Why not drop RM0.50 ler....Then he sure win in Permatang Pauh mah...."

Friend:"hahahaha...don't asked for too much la....drop is better than raise mah...."


So fellow readers, what did you lose?

Consideration

It is time to consider AGAIN!!!!

Just after 3 months...and I need to think, consider and judge again.....

I hate it, but what to do, I choose it.

Can any one show me some lights here??

八月十五日 - 晴

昨天睡得非常差，原因是与某人有了一个非常讨论会。很多过去的画面不停的在脑中飞逝，难以入眠。我不停的问自己，“我还活在过去吗？”，“我已习惯了吗？”，“我有错吗？”， “我在责备自己吗？”，“我准备好了吗？”，“我怎么了？”

结果爬了起床，开了电脑，上YouTube听了以下这首歌....

Had a VERY SERIOUS discussion with the special one today，ended up with a no-goodnight-sleep. Mind was flying backward and forward in time. Lots of memory showed up in my mind, couldn't fall sleep at all. Keep asking myself, "Am I still live in the past?", "Am I too used to it?", "Am I wrong?", "AM I blaming myself?", "Am I ready for it?", "What's wrong with me?"

Eventually, I crawled out from my bed, on my PC, login YouTube and watched the video below....

Miss This???

If you are around my age and you grew up in almost the same condition as me (typical Chinese and not rich family, the rich might be playing 小天才(Little Genius) video game instead of this.) , I am sure you played this and remember it.....

I still remember when I was a child, I never "break" the game and never thought this game is easy. Wonder how would feel it with my current age? Can I break this game with my age now? or my level is still remain at 5-7 years old?

So, this little "gadget" has now cut the Q of my long shopping list and all the way to the top. Anyone know where to buy or do you want to sell yours to me? Worst case if you are not willing to sell, call me out and let me put my fingers on it for a few hours...I buy you TGI Firday how??

Here, hope this video below able to bring travel back to your childhood.....

朋友

Once in awhile I have to write something in Chinese, so that I won't forget I can write in Chinese (at least pinyin). For those who can't read Chinese...I am so Sorry :(

朋友， 我有一个认识了15年的老朋友。 他的为人很好（第三音的好）玩，永远嘻嘻哈哈，蹦蹦跳跳，癫癫废废。虽然有时他满嘴污言，说话笔直，不大理会他人感受，但你和他在一起可以永远没有顾忌，完全不需理会人与人之间的戒心，你可以肯定他不会害你，不会出卖你。对着他，你可以很坦率，很赤裸。你需要帮忙他肯定会出手，可能帮不上什么大忙也没出百分之百的力，但肯定出之真心，不问回报。

他的唯一缺点就是太黏和太烦，为什么？你看看以下的电话对话就会明白：-

状况一：
他：“喂，你回来啦？ 为什么没来找我？”
我：“昨天才到”
他：“今晚出来”
我：“看怎样吧，刚下机很累”
他：“我不‘吊’你，你今晚不出来我死给你看！！！”
我：“OK, OK....不用死， 不用死”
他：“OK 啊，你出来啊~~~出来啦~~~”
我：“ -_-" ”

状况二：
他：“为什么你不去？”
我：“有些事情要办”
他：“有什么事情要办呢？你又没有理过我的感受啊~~~”
我：“不行啦，改天吧”
他：“我不理啊。。。不要采 ‘高’ 你了。。。你不要再来找我！！！”
我：“ -_-" ”


怎么样？很可爱（buekkkk）吧？ 无论如何还是一个不可多得的老兄弟。。。哦，我忘了告诉你，他是男的。。。。。哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。

他是谁？？如果他看到我这篇部落格，他应该在偷笑或者狂笑了。。。。嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻嘻。。。。。