Wednesday, August 27, 2008

喜歡

Below is an article that worth a person like me reading.

I didn't purposely look for it, but a friend of mine showed me as he wanted to me help him to translate a sentence into English. I couldn't hold myself to continue reading it after the first paragraph, and found it really worth a person like me reading it.

Decided to share with you. You might like it as well, who knows?


Article taken from http://www.sinchew.com.my/node/78286?tid=3

終於見面了!再見竟然是相隔10年之後。看他,緩緩走來,他的臉越來越清晰,笑容依舊,她的心裡突然一陣悸動,當年相遇的情景,深深淺淺,酸酸甜甜,那是初戀的感覺,就這樣一一回來了。她認真的把身子坐直,嘴角忍不住笑意,仔細端詳眼前的人,就是當年那個總在黃昏時分,騎腳踏車經過她家門口的少年,如今正和她面對面,細說從頭。

這樣的場景,這樣的一頓飯,對於當年的他們,曾經是一個多麼奢侈的夢。他們一起回憶當年,談笑之間,仿佛有一股柔軟的力量把對彼此的愛戀簡化,少了傷害,多了依靠。她心裡明白,他們的故事不會擁有像童話般的圓滿結局,卻也永遠不會划上休止符,有如一首唱不完的歌,在夜深人靜之時,只要想起對方,就會在耳邊輕輕響起。她心存感恩,因為她沒有失去這個朋友。

經過了這麼多年,他們已經可以很坦然的面對彼此,發生過的誤會也當成一個玩笑,互相調侃一番,隨即雲淡風輕。原來一直念念不忘的,是當年在人群之中,第一時間嵌入彼此眼裡的一張素臉,幹淨無塵,就像一個紋身,烙印在生命裡,永遠無法磨滅。

喜歡和愛,中間是一條時間的河,時間漸漸說明了一切。喜歡可以是很久很久的事,什麼時候想聽聽對方的聲音,就撥通電話;想念對方就寫封電郵,用彼此熟悉的文字來表達思念,不會有要求,自然也不會有壓力,越是在乎越是希望對方可以自由飛翔;愛,則是一場迷失自我的追逐遊戲,從最初怦砰然心動到最後的習慣,剩下的就只有更深的寂寞。

於是,他們選擇了喜歡,以另一種方式守護一段難得的情誼,一直到老。

5 comments:

Cutiez said...

我支持喜欢!!!!!!!!!!! 也赞成爱!!! 你呵....你呵....为情困是吧???

Jacob Johari said...

in a nutshell to differenciate the two
爱-can do

喜欢-cannot do

each gives a different kind of experience.....

Albert Yap said...
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Albert Yap said...

maegen - hahahaha...u so tamak one, both also u want....by the way, no la, I am not 为情困, just that I saw a lot similarity with me in this article...then touched touched lor...

Jacob - ur mind can never be clean one....regardless is it 爱 or 喜欢, if you feel like doing it, then NIKE la!!!! NIKE enough ler wor...dont too greedy and PEPSI wor.....hahahahahahaha....

Jacob Johari said...

eeeee....i dun mean dirty, u know me,im as pure as angel.